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A secret text code can help loved ones in an emergency: Here's how to set one up

A secret text code can help loved ones in an emergency: Here's how to set one up

There may be situations where your child, partner, or parent can't make a phone call. Or, worse, they could have someone looking over their shoulder when they text. That's when a secret emoji could

Why an emoji?

These little images are worth a thousand words, especially if they're part of an inside joke with family and friends.

In an emergency, an emoji is a lot less conspicuous than a word or phrase. If your kiddo can't call you or someone’s watching them text, an emoji can serve as the perfect (private) distress signal.

Which should you pick?

Make sure it's easy to remember – but not one your family usually uses in conversation. That's going to cause unnecessary confusion and concern. Don't use commonly used emojis, like hearts or smiley faces.

How to have the talk

Don't just mention this in passing. Have a formal sit-down to discuss the plan. Make sure everyone knows your family emoji should only be used in emergencies – no funny business.

Explain which responses anyone should expect from you if they use it. When they send you the emoji, will you follow up with a phone call? If so, what will you say?

🦒 Let’s say your teen texts you the giraffe

He went to a party at a friend's house. Things there are making him uncomfortable. He wants to leave. You can text him back the giraffe, which means you're on your way to get him.